COPING WITH EARLY-CHILDHOOD MENTAL HEALTH

Is your child having behavior problems, many tantrums, or emotional struggles? Read the advice below. Getting help early can make a big difference, ensuring every child can cope and be well.

ADVICE FROM PARENTS, TO PARENTs

Thoughts and insights from parents who’ve walked this path before you.

It’s not your fault.

If your child is struggling with emotions, it’s not because of something you did wrong. A child with loving caretakers can still need support to manage their feelings.

Mental health challenges in young children are real.

It’s not just “bad behavior” or a phase. A child’s emotions might be impacted by something deeper, and early support can make a big difference.

You’re not alone.

Don’t hesitate to reach out to other parents at school, your place of worship (church, etc.), or in your community. Talking to others who understand can help you feel supported and less isolated, and get useful advice.

Trauma can affect children, even if they don’t remember.

Young children can have mental health challenges from past trauma, even if they don’t recall it. Their bodies and minds are still affected. Don’t ignore the possibility of mental health needs, even if the trauma happened when your child was very young.

Don’t be afraid to ask for professional help.

If you’re concerned, it’s important not to self-diagnose. Talk to your pediatrician or seek other supports to better understand your child’s needs.

Getting help early can make a big difference

Usually, the sooner you seek support for your child, the more effective it can be. Early intervention helps set the foundation for better mental health as they grow.

Everyone deserves access to mental health, regardless of immigration status.

Many mental health services are available to all children and families, regardless of documentation status. If you have questions, you can ask any organization if they collect information about your legal residency status.

Support is available in many languages.

Not speaking English doesn’t prevent you from accessing mental health services. Many organizations offer multi-lingual support, including Spanish, Chinese, and more.

Headshot of Kitty Lopez

Kitty Lopez has served as the Executive Director of First 5 San Mateo County since 2013, focusing on strategic investing, community leadership, policy and advocacy development for young children, 0-5, and their families.

Kitty has served as Co-Chair of the Advisory Body for Build Up for San Mateo County Children’s Initiative, with Board of Supervisor, Dave Pine, since 2018.  Congressman Kevin Mullin is Honorary Co-Chair.  This initiative was established to preserve, grow, and increase the number of early care sites in San Mateo County.  

Kitty previously served as the Executive Director of Samaritan House, one of San Mateo County’s leading Core Service Agencies and safety-net nonprofits serving low-income families and individuals with food, shelter, clothing, health care, counseling, education classes, and holiday assistance from 2002 to 2013. 

Kitty taught kindergarten, second grade, and high school in southern California and San Francisco and was a consultant in schools with children who have autism and special needs. Additionally, Kitty worked in a residential substance abuse treatment center in San Francisco and psychiatric hospital for children and youth in San Diego.  Kitty’s roots in supporting children began as a 16-year-old volunteer at the Braille Institute in Los Angeles where she taught swimming to children and adults with visual impairments.

She attended University of California Santa Barbara earning a California Teaching Credential and B.A in Psychology. Kitty is active in her community serving as Vice Chair of the San Mateo County Event Center, and Past President and Current Member of the San Mateo Rotary Club.  She is currently serving as Past President of the First 5 Association of California. On March 2022, Assembly Speaker pro Tem Kevin Mullin selected Kitty Lopez as the 2022 Assembly District 22 Woman of the Year.